I sure have and I thought it would be a good idea to write an article about it. So, here we go. If you want a girlfriend then you need to figure out where the type of girls you like spend their free time. If you like women who are very lively and like parties then it's pretty rare to find them from knitting class. Should you be interested in shy girls then I would avoid places like clubs and wet T-shirt competiton :D You aint gonna find them there. So, decide what type of girls you like and go to places that are more likely to have that kind of girls present.
After that you will have to go to those places where your type of girls hang out and approach them - the right way. And then you scream: "well, I don't KNOW the right way". If you take a rock chick and a classical music listening woman then they both react to similar thing. The majority of women like a guy who is confident and non-needy. So, what is this thing called "confidence"? The best way to describe it is that you do the things you like and want and don't feel ashamed of doing them. To go after the things you want, take risks and not being afraid of failure or rejection. Non- neediness is when you want the chick but you don't NEED her. It means that you would love if she was part of your awesome life but if she is not up to it then it's ok also. It strongly communicates that you are a guy in abundance (could be true or not). It's quite hard for a woman to turn down a real guy. A guy like that is rare and hard to find. Even harder than finding a hot girl.
Ok, you're not needy and confident - awesome. Is the all you need to get the girl? Sometimes, but not always. When you are confident and not needy then it shows that you are a high value man but you also need to show her that you like her. Otherwise she might think that you don't like her or that you are gay. There is an easy way to get rid of this problem. Get physical and start flirting. Flirting is a way of being playful and show her that you like her. Getting physical is even better way of showing your intentions. You can be physical by playing with her fingers, putting your arm around her, high fiving or whatever involves physical contact. A great way of being physical is having sex with her :D
Ok, you got a chick attracted to you but how to get her to become your gf? It's not actually that hard. All you need to do is keep being that awesome man and escalate. The best way is to sleep with the girl as fast as you can and then make her your girlfriend. If you two are already sleeping then that means she likes you and from there it's no brainer. Just ask her out to do different things and activities with you and BAM, you are in a relationship :)
Ok, seems as I got everything said. Now get out there and get the chick you want. No more "solo" nights at home :D If you liked this post then make sure to share it. Also check out posts from WomenMadeSimple.com. They really know what they are talking about, http://womenmadesimple.com/how-to-get-girls-to-kiss-you/ was a real eye-opener for me for example.
After that you will have to go to those places where your type of girls hang out and approach them - the right way. And then you scream: "well, I don't KNOW the right way". If you take a rock chick and a classical music listening woman then they both react to similar thing. The majority of women like a guy who is confident and non-needy. So, what is this thing called "confidence"? The best way to describe it is that you do the things you like and want and don't feel ashamed of doing them. To go after the things you want, take risks and not being afraid of failure or rejection. Non- neediness is when you want the chick but you don't NEED her. It means that you would love if she was part of your awesome life but if she is not up to it then it's ok also. It strongly communicates that you are a guy in abundance (could be true or not). It's quite hard for a woman to turn down a real guy. A guy like that is rare and hard to find. Even harder than finding a hot girl.
Ok, you're not needy and confident - awesome. Is the all you need to get the girl? Sometimes, but not always. When you are confident and not needy then it shows that you are a high value man but you also need to show her that you like her. Otherwise she might think that you don't like her or that you are gay. There is an easy way to get rid of this problem. Get physical and start flirting. Flirting is a way of being playful and show her that you like her. Getting physical is even better way of showing your intentions. You can be physical by playing with her fingers, putting your arm around her, high fiving or whatever involves physical contact. A great way of being physical is having sex with her :D
Ok, you got a chick attracted to you but how to get her to become your gf? It's not actually that hard. All you need to do is keep being that awesome man and escalate. The best way is to sleep with the girl as fast as you can and then make her your girlfriend. If you two are already sleeping then that means she likes you and from there it's no brainer. Just ask her out to do different things and activities with you and BAM, you are in a relationship :)
Ok, seems as I got everything said. Now get out there and get the chick you want. No more "solo" nights at home :D If you liked this post then make sure to share it. Also check out posts from WomenMadeSimple.com. They really know what they are talking about, http://womenmadesimple.com/how-to-get-girls-to-kiss-you/ was a real eye-opener for me for example.